Disconnected, Loneliness, lack of sex and intimacy.
You feel completely alone in your relationship or like your living with a stranger that you used to know.
It feels as if you’re going to war instead of in a loving relationship with your teammate.
Basic conversations will turn into a fight which makes the entire relationship unsafe.
You maybe haven’t been intimate in months or years because you can’t imagine getting vulnerable with your partner.
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Do you ever wonder…
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Who is this person I used to know?
Does s/he/they even care?
Why can’t we talk about basic things without fighting?
It may be threatening all parts of your life because you can’t focus on anything else.
It feels like you’ve tried everything to forget it, but nothing is working.
But the truth is this...
Change is possible. Healing is possible. Taking your relationships and life back is possible.
Finding the way back to love
When our attachment needs aren’t being met, our brains re-wire our experiences with the people we love the most.
All of a sudden the people the closest to us become the cause for fear, resentment, and so much pain.
Simply talking with them about daily tasks will feel like we are constantly at war within our own home. This only perpetuates a cycle that polarizes us and increases loneliness and hopelessness.
Therapy is about breaking that pattern, and getting to the root cause to heal the source of conflict.
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Getting on the right path
We use Emotionally Focused Therapy to discuss why your needs are not being met in the relationship, and then change how you interact with each to healthier and loving patterns.
This gets you feeling safe with your partner, and from safety your needs can be met. That leads to passion, and passion leads to sex, intimacy and falling in love again.
If you are ready to take your relationships back, then we’re here to help you.
Reaching out is a difficult step but it can be the first step toward healing.
Click on the button below or call us at (269) 264-8020 to get started either with kalamazoo couples counseling or online couples counseling